Support form ref as an option when using hooks

[10xjs]

When using the recommended ref pattern it is not possible to use hooks outside of the form provider context.

const form = React.useRef();

// this doesn't work!
const status = useFormStatus({form: form.current});

return (
  <Form ref={form}>
    ...
  </Form>
);

An acceptable solution may be to add support for a ref to useFormStatus and others:

const form = React.useRef();

// this would be a nice solution
const status = useFormStatus({form});

return (
  <Form ref={form}>
    ...
  </Form>
);