Adguard home causing a lot of internet hiccups, disconnects.

[bobloadmire]

I have adguard home setup on my HomeAssistant server. I have it configured with 8.8.8.8 and 1.1.1.1. I then point my router to my local HA address and off it goes. Normal internet browsing, everything seems ok, but a little laggy to load webpages, like theres always a few second pause and then the page loads. Both DNS are returning results in about 60-80ms according to AGH, which seems pretty slow. Also when playing videogames, i get rubberbanding and full disconnects. I tried just disabling the ad protection, and just using bare DNS to see if it was blocking vital IPs, but that didn't fix the issue. If I reconfig my router to use 1.1.1.1 and 8.8.8.8 as primary and secondary DNS, webpage loading is much snappier and gaming is fluid. Any ideas? Attaching screenshot of my AGH config.

checked the stats of my HA server, plenty of free CPU time and RAM.

https://imgur.com/a/aYRSAIa