Fixed the bug that the attribute update container may add extra calculated memory to schema engine (apache#16682)

Author: Caideyipi

iotdb-core/datanode/src/main/java/org/apache/iotdb/db/schemaengine/schemaregion/attribute/update/DeviceAttributeCacheUpdater.java

@@ -440,17 +440,23 @@ private void updateMemory(final long size) {
     if (size > 0) {
       requestMemory(size);
     } else {
-      releaseMemory(size);
+      releaseMemory(-size);
     }
   }
 
   private void requestMemory(final long size) {
+    if (size < 0) {
+      throw new UnsupportedOperationException("requestMemory size must not be negative");
+    }
     if (regionStatistics != null) {
       regionStatistics.requestMemory(size);
     }
   }
 
   private void releaseMemory(final long size) {
+    if (size < 0) {
+      throw new UnsupportedOperationException("releaseMemory size must not be negative");
+    }
     if (regionStatistics != null) {
       regionStatistics.releaseMemory(size);
     }