Built-in onnxruntime-extensions updates (microsoft#24892)

### Description
<!-- Describe your changes. -->

- Fix onnxruntime-extensions include path.
- Add option to onnxruntime_perf_test to register custom ops from a
built-in onnxruntime-extensions.

### Motivation and Context
<!-- - Why is this change required? What problem does it solve?
- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->

Fix build.py `--use_extensions` option.
Make it simple to use the built-in onnxruntime-extensions with
onnxruntime_perf_test.

Author: edgchen1

cmake/external/extensions.cmake

@@ -69,7 +69,7 @@ set_target_properties(ortcustomops PROPERTIES INTERFACE_INCLUDE_DIRECTORIES "")
 
 # target library or executable are defined in CMakeLists.txt of onnxruntime-extensions
 target_include_directories(ocos_operators PRIVATE ${RE2_INCLUDE_DIR} ${json_SOURCE_DIR}/include)
-target_include_directories(ortcustomops PUBLIC $<BUILD_INTERFACE:${onnxruntime_EXTENSIONS_PATH}/includes>)
+target_include_directories(ortcustomops PUBLIC $<BUILD_INTERFACE:${onnxruntime_EXTENSIONS_PATH}/include>)
 if(OCOS_ENABLE_SPM_TOKENIZER)
   onnxruntime_add_include_to_target(sentencepiece-static ${PROTOBUF_LIB} ${ABSEIL_LIBS})
 endif()

onnxruntime/test/perftest/command_args_parser.cc

@@ -161,6 +161,9 @@ namespace perftest {
       "\t-n [Exit after session creation]: allow user to measure session creation time to measure impact of enabling any initialization optimizations.\n"
       "\t-l Provide file as binary in memory by using fopen before session creation.\n"
       "\t-R [Register custom op]: allow user to register custom op by .so or .dll file.\n"
+      "\t-X [Enable onnxruntime-extensions custom ops]: Registers custom ops from onnxruntime-extensions. "
+      "onnxruntime-extensions must have been built in to onnxruntime. This can be done with the build.py "
+      "'--use_extensions' option.\n"
       "\t-h: help\n");
 }
 #ifdef _WIN32
@@ -190,7 +193,7 @@ static bool ParseDimensionOverride(std::basic_string<ORTCHAR_T>& dim_identifier,
 
 /*static*/ bool CommandLineParser::ParseArguments(PerformanceTestConfig& test_config, int argc, ORTCHAR_T* argv[]) {
   int ch;
-  while ((ch = getopt(argc, argv, ORT_TSTR("m:e:r:t:p:x:y:c:d:o:u:i:f:F:S:T:C:AMPIDZvhsqznlgR:"))) != -1) {
+  while ((ch = getopt(argc, argv, ORT_TSTR("m:e:r:t:p:x:y:c:d:o:u:i:f:F:S:T:C:AMPIDZvhsqznlgR:X"))) != -1) {
     switch (ch) {
       case 'f': {
         std::basic_string<ORTCHAR_T> dim_name;
@@ -393,6 +396,9 @@ static bool ParseDimensionOverride(std::basic_string<ORTCHAR_T>& dim_identifier,
       case 'g':
         test_config.run_config.enable_cuda_io_binding = true;
         break;
+      case 'X':
+        test_config.run_config.use_extensions = true;
+        break;
       case '?':
       case 'h':
       default:

onnxruntime/test/perftest/ort_test_session.cc

@@ -826,6 +826,10 @@ select from 'TF8', 'TF16', 'UINT8', 'FLOAT', 'ITENSOR'. \n)");
 #endif
   }
 
+  if (performance_test_config.run_config.use_extensions) {
+    session_options.EnableOrtCustomOps();
+  }
+
   if (!performance_test_config.model_info.load_via_path) {
     session_ = Ort::Session(env, performance_test_config.model_info.model_file_path.c_str(), session_options);
   } else {

onnxruntime/test/perftest/test_configuration.h

@@ -67,6 +67,7 @@ struct RunConfig {
   bool exit_after_session_creation = false;
   std::basic_string<ORTCHAR_T> register_custom_op_path;
   bool enable_cuda_io_binding{false};
+  bool use_extensions = false;
 };
 
 struct PerformanceTestConfig {