fix(dsm): enable tuples as botocore param [backport 1.16] (#6347)

Backport 8401722 from #6289 to 1.16.

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Co-authored-by: shethhriday29 <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: Munir Abdinur <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: Hriday Sheth <[email protected]>

Author: 3 people

ddtrace/contrib/botocore/patch.py

@@ -511,7 +511,7 @@ def patched_api_call(original_func, instance, args, kwargs):
                 if "MessageAttributeNames" not in params:
                     params.update({"MessageAttributeNames": ["_datadog"]})
                 elif "_datadog" not in params["MessageAttributeNames"]:
-                    params.update({"MessageAttributeNames": params["MessageAttributeNames"] + ["_datadog"]})
+                    params.update({"MessageAttributeNames": list(params["MessageAttributeNames"]) + ["_datadog"]})
 
                 result = original_func(*args, **kwargs)
                 _set_response_metadata_tags(span, result)

releasenotes/notes/botocore-sqs-tuples-param-cc4705bcb0647ae7.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+---
+fixes:
+  - |
+    botocore: Enables Data Streams Monitoring for SQS when `MessageAttributes` are passed in
+    as a tuple in addition to when they are passed in as a list.