Update more replace ops passes to new interface (pytorch#16063)

Summary:

Updated
- ReplaceSelectWithViewOpPass
- ReplaceMMWithAddMMPass
- ReplacePadWithCatPass
- ReplaceTrivialConvWithLinear
- ReplaceConvWithIm2RowAndLinear
- ReplaceTorchQuantizedEmbeddingWithCadenceQuantizedEmbedding

to use the new more efficient RemoveOrReplacePassInterface, which also correctly sets the modified bit.

Reviewed By: eigen-k, hsharma35

Differential Revision: D87821616

Author: Andrew Grebenisan