Add structured reporting diff to AlloyDBInstance (#6782)

### BRIEF Change description

Fixes #6529

#### WHY do we need this change?

Add structured reporting diff to the controller in
`pkg/controller/direct/alloydb/instance_controller.go`.
The `structuredreporting.ReportDiff` should be used in the `Update`
method of the adapter to report which fields are being updated.
This helps in debugging reconciliation loops and provides better
visibility into what changed.

#### Special notes for your reviewer:

#### Does this PR add something which needs to be 'release noted'?
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#### Intended Milestone
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### Tests you have done

- [ ] Run `make ready-pr` to ensure this PR is ready for review.
- [ ] Perform necessary E2E testing for changed resources.

Author: cheftako

pkg/controller/direct/alloydb/instance_controller.go

@@ -27,6 +27,7 @@ import (
 	"github.com/GoogleCloudPlatform/k8s-config-connector/pkg/controller/direct/directbase"
 	"github.com/GoogleCloudPlatform/k8s-config-connector/pkg/controller/direct/registry"
 	"github.com/GoogleCloudPlatform/k8s-config-connector/pkg/label"
+	"github.com/GoogleCloudPlatform/k8s-config-connector/pkg/structuredreporting"
 
 	gcp "cloud.google.com/go/alloydb/apiv1beta"
 	alloydbpb "cloud.google.com/go/alloydb/apiv1beta/alloydbpb"
@@ -298,6 +299,13 @@ func (a *instanceAdapter) Update(ctx context.Context, updateOp *directbase.Updat
 		}
 		return nil
 	}
+
+	report := &structuredreporting.Diff{Object: updateOp.GetUnstructured()}
+	for _, path := range updatePaths {
+		report.AddField(path, nil, nil)
+	}
+	structuredreporting.ReportDiff(ctx, report)
+
 	updateMask := &fieldmaskpb.FieldMask{
 		Paths: updatePaths,
 	}