Enable xpu windows CD (pytorch#3833)

Author: chuanqi129

.github/workflows/build_wheels_windows.yml

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@ jobs:
       os: windows
       test-infra-repository: pytorch/test-infra
       test-infra-ref: main
+      with-xpu: enable
   build:
     needs: generate-matrix
     strategy:

packaging/vc_env_helper.bat

@@ -20,6 +20,8 @@ if "%VSDEVCMD_ARGS%" == "" (
 
 @echo on
 
+if "%CU_VERSION%" == "xpu" call "C:\Program Files (x86)\Intel\oneAPI\setvars.bat"
+
 set DISTUTILS_USE_SDK=1
 
 set args=%1