Enable 3.13t builds on Windows (pytorch#3881)

See documentation:
https://cmake.org/cmake/help/latest/module/FindPython3.html
Successful workflow:
https://github.com/pytorch/test-infra/actions/runs/13381336461/job/37371953479?pr=6

Author: atalman

cmake/TorchAudioHelper.cmake

@@ -57,6 +57,7 @@ if (BUILD_TORCHAUDIO_PYTHON_EXTENSION)
   find_library(TORCH_PYTHON_LIBRARY torch_python PATHS "${TORCH_INSTALL_PREFIX}/lib")
 
   if (WIN32)
+    set (Python3_FIND_ABI "ANY" "ANY" "ANY" "ANY")
     find_package(Python3 ${PYTHON_VERSION} EXACT COMPONENTS Development)
     set(ADDITIONAL_ITEMS Python3::Python)
   endif()