Improve interoperability between `SyclDevice` and DLPack devices #5195

Job	Run time
build_linux (3.9)	38m 46s
build_windows (3.9)	1h 6m 30s
build_linux (3.10)	37m 34s
build_windows (3.10)	1h 6m 13s
build_linux (3.11)	37m 33s
build_windows (3.11)	1h 10m 8s
build_windows (3.12)	1h 6m 14s
build_linux (3.12)	37m 17s
build_linux (3.13)	39m 5s
build_windows (3.13)	1h 8m 24s
test_examples_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-22.04)	25m 14s
array-api-conformity (3.10, false, ubuntu-22.04)	5m 31s
test_linux (3.9, false, ubuntu-22.04)	12m 0s
test_linux (3.10, false, ubuntu-22.04)	11m 18s
test_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-22.04)	12m 37s
test_linux (3.12, false, ubuntu-22.04)	11m 52s
test_linux (3.13, false, ubuntu-22.04)	11m 5s
upload_linux	0s
test_windows (3.9, false, windows-2019)	15m 2s
test_windows (3.10, false, windows-2019)	15m 10s
test_windows (3.11, false, windows-2019)	14m 32s
test_windows (3.12, false, windows-2019)	15m 25s
test_windows (3.13, false, windows-2019)	14m 45s
upload_windows	0s
Clean up anaconda packages	0s
	11h 32m 15s

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