[AutoDeploy] Support rope+attention fusion

[galagam]

🚀 The feature, motivation and pitch

AD: RoPE + elemwise + append to KVC + attention
PT: kernel_mha

After enabling the trtllm attention backend in AD #10243 , we also need to address RoPE fusion.

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