DEP: manually upgrade GHA (including fixes for cibuildwheel) #570

Job	Run time
release_default / Load build targets	7s
release / Load build targets	8s
release_sdist_only / Load build targets	0s
release_sdist_only / Build ${{ matrix.target }} wheels	-1s
release_sdist_only / Build source distribution	-1s
release_sdist_only / Upload	-1s
release_default / Build linux wheels	4m 31s
release_default / Build windows wheels	14m 30s
release_default / Build macos wheels	8m 7s
release_default / Build source distribution	29s
release / Build source distribution	31s
release / Build cp3?-win_amd64 wheels	2m 6s
release / Build cp312-macosx_arm64 wheels	26s
release / Build cp313-macosx_universal2 wheels	41s
release / Build cp31?-macos* wheels	4m 48s
release / Build cp311-macosx_x86_64 wheels	52s
release / Build cp313-manylinux_x86_64 wheels	55s
release / Build linux wheels	4m 55s
release / Build cp311-manylinux_ppc64le wheels	2m 42s
release / Build cp312-manylinux_aarch64 wheels	1m 14s
release / Upload	-1s
release_default / Upload	0s
	46m 58s

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