fix xbyak control by -DWITH_XBYAK,test=develop (#21560)

Author: zhwesky2010

cmake/external/xbyak.cmake

@@ -15,6 +15,9 @@
 option(WITH_XBYAK   "Compile with xbyak support"    ON)
 if(WIN32 OR APPLE)
     SET(WITH_XBYAK OFF CACHE STRING "Disable XBYAK in Windows and MacOS" FORCE)
+endif()
+
+if(NOT WITH_XBYAK)
     return()
 endif()