cherry-pick add deprecated for softmax_with_cross_entropy (#31953)

* add deprecated for softmax_with_cross_entropy (#31722)

* add deprecated for softmax_with_cross_entropy, test=develop

* test for deprecated in english doc, test=develop

* test deprecated for softmax_with_cross_entropy in english doc, test=develop

* fix readme and English doc for cross_entropy, test=develop

* rm test for softmax_with_cross_entropy deprecated, test=develop

* update readme for CrossEntropyLoss, test=develop

* fix readme format, test=develop

* fix readme format, test=develop

* fix readme format for cross_entropy, test=develop

* add softmax_switch and fix softlabel for cross_entropy, test=develop

* 1)recovery softmax_with_cross_entropy in fluid 2) change softmax_switch to use_softmax 3) add example for softlabel for cross_entropy, test=develop

* fix Example number for cross_entropy, test=develop

* fix code format, test=develop

* fix for CI-Coverage, test=develop

* fix for CI-Coverage, test=develop

* fix ci-coverage for Non-ASCII character '\xe2' in file, test=develop

* fix ci-coverage for Non-ASCII character '\xe2' in nn.layer.loss.py, test=develop

* update description for doc when use_softmax=Fasle, test=develop

* fix some docs and code example for cross_entropy, test=develop

* delete redundant description for soft_label parameter of cross_entropy, test=develop

* fix some comment for test_cross_entropy_loss.py, test=develop

* cherry-pick for add deprecated,test=develop

Author: chajchaj