fix l1 regularizer (#13881)

test=develop

Author: chengduo

python/paddle/fluid/regularizer.py

@@ -237,6 +237,7 @@ def __call__(self, param, grad, block):
                         'Ids': idx},
                 outputs={'Out': decay},
                 attrs={'is_sparse': True})
+            param = decay
 
         # Append sign op
         block.append_op(