[BE]: Update nvshmem to 3.4.5 (pytorch#164046)

Release notes can be found here: https://docs.nvidia.com/nvshmem/release-notes-install-guide/release-notes/release-3405.html main difference is the addition of a CPU assisted IBGDA fallback which should allow NVSHMEM IBGDA to work on way more systems without admin intervention and without using GDRCopy.
Pull Request resolved: pytorch#164046
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang, https://github.com/kwen2501

Author: Skylion007

.ci/docker/common/install_cuda.sh

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@ else
   arch_path='sbsa'
 fi
 
-NVSHMEM_VERSION=3.3.24
+NVSHMEM_VERSION=3.4.5
 
 function install_cuda {
   version=$1

.github/scripts/generate_binary_build_matrix.py

@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@
         "nvidia-cusparse-cu12==12.5.4.2; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cusparselt-cu12==0.7.1; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nccl-cu12==2.27.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
-        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu12==3.3.24; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
+        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu12==3.4.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvtx-cu12==12.6.77; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvjitlink-cu12==12.6.85; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cufile-cu12==1.11.1.6; platform_system == 'Linux'"
@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@
         "nvidia-cusparse-cu12==12.5.8.93; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cusparselt-cu12==0.7.1; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nccl-cu12==2.27.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
-        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu12==3.3.24; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
+        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu12==3.4.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvtx-cu12==12.8.90; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvjitlink-cu12==12.8.93; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cufile-cu12==1.13.1.3; platform_system == 'Linux'"
@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@
         "nvidia-cusparse-cu12==12.5.10.65; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cusparselt-cu12==0.7.1; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nccl-cu12==2.27.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
-        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu12==3.3.20; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
+        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu12==3.4.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvtx-cu12==12.9.79; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvjitlink-cu12==12.9.86; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cufile-cu12==1.14.1.1; platform_system == 'Linux'"
@@ -107,7 +107,7 @@
         "nvidia-cusparse==12.6.3.3; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cusparselt-cu13==0.8.0; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nccl-cu13==2.27.7; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
-        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu13==3.3.24; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
+        "nvidia-nvshmem-cu13==3.4.5; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvtx==13.0.85; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-nvjitlink==13.0.88; platform_system == 'Linux' | "
         "nvidia-cufile==1.15.1.6; platform_system == 'Linux'"