chore: upgrade to react native 81 and expo 54 #3373

Job	Run time
E2E Hold	46s
ESLint and Test / run-eslint-and-test	57s
E2E Build Android	-1s
E2E Build iOS	-1s
E2E Run iOS	-1s
E2E Run Android	-1s
Build Android Experimental	0s
Build Android Official	0s
Build iOS Experimental	0s
Build iOS Official	0s
	1m 39s

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