Expose resetSelectedRowsAction for useRowSelection hook (or make selection work better for manual pagination)

[dpovey]

When using manual pagination it does not seem to be possible to use the selectedFlatRows field to store selected rows across multiple pages. Instead I use the following strategy:

const getRowId = (row: RowType) => row.id
const tableInstance = useTable({ ...,  manualPagination: true, getRowId }, [usePagination, useRowSelect])

// Keys of selectedRowIds now work across multiple pages
const selectedRowIds = state.selectedRowIds

The seems to work well with the only exception that toggleAllRowSelected(false) will only work for the current page. The workaround is to call dispatch({ type: 'resetSelectedRows' }) instead which clears the state.selectedRowIds. It would be helpful if this was returned in the table instance as well as the other methods.

Unless I am missing something and there is a much better way to do this, but there doesn't seem a more logical way that selectedFlatRows could be kept when using manual pagination.