Pagination and invalidating query data

[UltimateGG]

I have a table, similar to this:

The data for the table is from a react query call.
When you click the isAdmin switch it does a mutation, and when that finishes it invalidates the query. This causes the table to go back to page 1, since data changed.

I tried using autoResetPageIndex: false, but that breaks the normal functionality of when filtering or sorting setting the page back to 1.
Ideally: #5207

How can I get the best of both worlds? What's the best pattern for this?