[MLIR][IRDL][CMake] Switch to using setup_host_tool to fix cross compilation (llvm#156606)

Using `build_native_tool` directly doesn't seem to be standard, instead
other tools seem to call `setup_host_tool` (e.g. milr-linalg-ods-gen and
`add_tablegen` seems to have a copy of `setup_host_tool` internally).

When cross compiling llvm in two stages, the first building all native
tools and then the second using those built tools to cross compile, this
prevents the second stage from trying to rebuild mlir-irdl-to-cpp, which
fails.

(cherry picked from commit f5006e0)

Author: Zentrik

mlir/tools/mlir-irdl-to-cpp/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -6,23 +6,4 @@ mlir_target_link_libraries(mlir-irdl-to-cpp
   MLIRTargetIRDLToCpp
   )
 
-# Set up a native build when cross-compiling.
-if(LLVM_USE_HOST_TOOLS)
-  build_native_tool(
-    mlir-irdl-to-cpp
-    MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_EXE
-
-    # Native tool must depend on target tool so that the native tool gets
-    # properly rebuilt when the target tool changes.
-    DEPENDS mlir-irdl-to-cpp
-  )
-  add_custom_target(mlir-irdl-to-cpp-host DEPENDS ${MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_EXE})
-  set(MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_TARGET mlir-irdl-to-cpp-host)
-else()
-  set(MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_EXE $<TARGET_FILE:mlir-irdl-to-cpp>)
-  set(MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_TARGET mlir-irdl-to-cpp)
-endif()
-
-# Save the executable path and target name to the cache to expose it globally.
-set(MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_EXE "${MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_EXE}" CACHE INTERNAL "")
-set(MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_TARGET "${MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_TARGET}" CACHE INTERNAL "")
+setup_host_tool(mlir-irdl-to-cpp MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_EXE MLIR_IRDL_TO_CPP_TARGET)