fix: remove inert if user cycles through whole list/dnd multiple times via keyboard dnd (#8581)

the root cause is because in a virtualizer node reuse/reorder case, we were removing the node from the hidden nodes prematurely even though it was going to be readded immediately after, causing the ref count to erroneously increment by 1 again

Co-authored-by: Robert Snow <[email protected]>

Author: LFDanLu

packages/@react-aria/overlays/src/ariaHideOutside.ts

@@ -143,13 +143,6 @@ export function ariaHideOutside(targets: Element[], options?: AriaHideOutsideOpt
       // If the parent element of the added nodes is not within one of the targets,
       // and not already inside a hidden node, hide all of the new children.
       if (![...visibleNodes, ...hiddenNodes].some(node => node.contains(change.target))) {
-        for (let node of change.removedNodes) {
-          if (node instanceof Element) {
-            visibleNodes.delete(node);
-            hiddenNodes.delete(node);
-          }
-        }
-
         for (let node of change.addedNodes) {
           if (
             (node instanceof HTMLElement || node instanceof SVGElement) &&

packages/@react-aria/overlays/test/ariaHideOutside.test.js

@@ -406,7 +406,9 @@ describe('ariaHideOutside', function () {
       let [count, setCount] = useState(0);
       let items = ['row1', 'row2', 'row3', 'row4', 'row5'];
       if (count === 1) {
-        items = ['row2', 'row3', 'row4', 'row5', 'row1'];
+        items = ['row2', 'row1', 'row3', 'row4', 'row5'];
+      } else if (count === 2) {
+        items = ['row2', 'row3', 'row1', 'row4', 'row5'];
       }
 
       return (
@@ -426,9 +428,11 @@ describe('ariaHideOutside', function () {
     let row = getByTestId('row1');
     let revert = ariaHideOutside([button]);
 
+    act(() => button.click());
+    await Promise.resolve();
     act(() => button.click());
     await Promise.resolve();
     revert();
-    expect(row).not.toHaveAttribute('aria-hidden', 'true');
+    expect(row.parentElement).not.toHaveAttribute('aria-hidden', 'true');
   });
 });