fix: make sure tap highlight doesn't appear in S2 Calendar on iOS (#8601)

* fix: make sure tap highlight doesnt appear in Calendar on iOS

* Add press state

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Co-authored-by: Devon Govett <[email protected]>

Author: LFDanLu

packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Calendar.tsx

@@ -70,7 +70,8 @@ const calendarStyles = style({
   display: 'flex',
   flexDirection: 'column',
   gap: 24,
-  width: 'fit'
+  width: 'fit',
+  disableTapHighlight: true
 }, getAllowedOverrides());
 
 const headerStyles = style({
@@ -173,6 +174,7 @@ const cellInnerStyles = style<CalendarCellRenderProps & {selectionMode: 'single'
   backgroundColor: {
     default: 'transparent',
     isHovered: 'gray-100',
+    isPressed: 'gray-100',
     isDisabled: 'transparent',
     isToday: {
       default: baseColor('gray-300'),