diff --git a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/ComboBox.tsx b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/ComboBox.tsx
index 9f5ea1cfb9d..34644b644c6 100644
--- a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/ComboBox.tsx
+++ b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/ComboBox.tsx
@@ -78,7 +78,7 @@ export interface ComboboxStyleProps {
   size?: 'S' | 'M' | 'L' | 'XL'
 }
 export interface ComboBoxProps<T extends object> extends
-  Omit<AriaComboBoxProps<T>, 'children' | 'style' | 'className' | 'defaultFilter' | 'allowsEmptyCollection' | keyof GlobalDOMAttributes>,
+  Omit<AriaComboBoxProps<T>, 'children' | 'style' | 'className' | 'defaultFilter' | 'allowsEmptyCollection' | 'isTriggerPressedWhenOpen' | keyof GlobalDOMAttributes>,
   ComboboxStyleProps,
   StyleProps,
   SpectrumLabelableProps,
@@ -353,6 +353,7 @@ export const ComboBox = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(function Co
   return (
     <AriaComboBox
       {...comboBoxProps}
+      isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false}
       allowsEmptyCollection
       style={UNSAFE_style}
       className={UNSAFE_className + style(field(), getAllowedOverrides())({
@@ -642,9 +643,6 @@ const ComboboxInner = forwardRef(function ComboboxInner(props: ComboBoxProps<any
           )}
           <Button
             ref={buttonRef}
-            // Prevent press scale from sticking while ComboBox is open.
-            // @ts-ignore
-            isPressed={false}
             style={renderProps => pressScale(buttonRef)(renderProps)}
             className={renderProps => inputButton({
               ...renderProps,
diff --git a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DatePicker.tsx b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DatePicker.tsx
index 7ffc20b7b9f..b742ab21a7d 100644
--- a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DatePicker.tsx
+++ b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DatePicker.tsx
@@ -40,7 +40,7 @@ import {useSpectrumContextProps} from './useSpectrumContextProps';
 
 
 export interface DatePickerProps<T extends DateValue> extends
-  Omit<AriaDatePickerProps<T>, 'children' | 'className' | 'style' | keyof GlobalDOMAttributes>,
+  Omit<AriaDatePickerProps<T>, 'children' | 'className' | 'style' | 'isTriggerPressedWhenOpen' | keyof GlobalDOMAttributes>,
   Pick<CalendarProps<T>, 'createCalendar' | 'pageBehavior' | 'firstDayOfWeek' | 'isDateUnavailable'>,
   StyleProps,
   SpectrumLabelableProps,
@@ -153,6 +153,7 @@ export const DatePicker = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(function
       ref={ref}
       isRequired={isRequired}
       {...dateFieldProps}
+      isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false}
       style={UNSAFE_style}
       className={(UNSAFE_className || '') + style(field(), getAllowedOverrides())({
         isInForm: !!formContext,
@@ -274,9 +275,6 @@ export function CalendarButton(props: {isOpen: boolean, size: 'S' | 'M' | 'L' |
   return (
     <Button
       ref={buttonRef}
-      // Prevent press scale from sticking while DatePicker is open.
-      // @ts-ignore
-      isPressed={false}
       onFocusChange={setButtonHasFocus}
       style={pressScale(buttonRef)}
       className={renderProps => inputButton({
diff --git a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DialogTrigger.tsx b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DialogTrigger.tsx
index 339855f79c3..32417b56e19 100644
--- a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DialogTrigger.tsx
+++ b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/DialogTrigger.tsx
@@ -11,10 +11,9 @@
  */
 
 import {DialogTrigger as AriaDialogTrigger, DialogTriggerProps as AriaDialogTriggerProps} from 'react-aria-components';
-import {PressResponder} from '@react-aria/interactions';
 import {ReactNode} from 'react';
 
-export interface DialogTriggerProps extends AriaDialogTriggerProps {}
+export type DialogTriggerProps = Omit<AriaDialogTriggerProps, 'isPressedWhenOpen'>;
 
 /**
  * DialogTrigger serves as a wrapper around a Dialog and its associated trigger, linking the Dialog's
@@ -23,12 +22,6 @@ export interface DialogTriggerProps extends AriaDialogTriggerProps {}
  */
 export function DialogTrigger(props: DialogTriggerProps): ReactNode {
   return (
-    <AriaDialogTrigger {...props}>
-      {/* RAC sets isPressed via PressResponder when the dialog is open.
-          We don't want press scaling to appear to get "stuck", so override this. */}
-      <PressResponder isPressed={false}>
-        {props.children}
-      </PressResponder>
-    </AriaDialogTrigger>
+    <AriaDialogTrigger {...props} isPressedWhenOpen={false} />
   );
 }
diff --git a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Menu.tsx b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Menu.tsx
index b6b11040164..87ec9040328 100644
--- a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Menu.tsx
+++ b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Menu.tsx
@@ -52,7 +52,7 @@ import {useSpectrumContextProps} from './useSpectrumContextProps';
 // viewbox on LinkOut is super weird just because i copied the icon from designs...
 // need to strip id's from icons
 
-export interface MenuTriggerProps extends AriaMenuTriggerProps {
+export interface MenuTriggerProps extends Omit<AriaMenuTriggerProps, 'isPressedWhenOpen'> {
   /**
    * Alignment of the menu relative to the trigger.
    *
@@ -530,8 +530,6 @@ export function MenuItem(props: MenuItemProps): ReactNode {
  * linking the Menu's open state with the trigger's press state.
  */
 function MenuTrigger(props: MenuTriggerProps): ReactNode {
-  // RAC sets isPressed via PressResponder when the menu is open.
-  // We don't want press scaling to appear to get "stuck", so override this.
   // For mouse interactions, menus open on press start. When the popover underlay appears
   // it covers the trigger button, causing onPressEnd to fire immediately and no press scaling
   // to occur. We override this by listening for pointerup on the document ourselves.
diff --git a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Picker.tsx b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Picker.tsx
index 73ebf34ce92..b07d30b9025 100644
--- a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Picker.tsx
+++ b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/Picker.tsx
@@ -98,7 +98,7 @@ export interface PickerStyleProps {
 
 type SelectionMode = 'single' | 'multiple';
 export interface PickerProps<T extends object, M extends SelectionMode = 'single'> extends
-  Omit<AriaSelectProps<T, M>, 'children' | 'style' | 'className' | keyof GlobalDOMAttributes>,
+  Omit<AriaSelectProps<T, M>, 'children' | 'style' | 'className' | 'isTriggerPressedWhenOpen'  | keyof GlobalDOMAttributes>,
   PickerStyleProps,
   StyleProps,
   SpectrumLabelableProps,
@@ -351,6 +351,7 @@ export const Picker = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(function Pick
   return (
     <AriaSelect
       {...pickerProps}
+      isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false}
       aria-describedby={spinnerId}
       placeholder={placeholder}
       style={UNSAFE_style}
@@ -521,9 +522,6 @@ const PickerButton = createHideableComponent(function PickerButton<T extends obj
       <Button
         ref={buttonRef}
         style={renderProps => pressScale(buttonRef)(renderProps)}
-        // Prevent press scale from sticking while Picker is open.
-        // @ts-ignore
-        isPressed={false}
         className={renderProps => inputButton({
           ...renderProps,
           size: size,
diff --git a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/TabsPicker.tsx b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/TabsPicker.tsx
index d381a63e62b..6d35b0bb716 100644
--- a/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/TabsPicker.tsx
+++ b/packages/@react-spectrum/s2/src/TabsPicker.tsx
@@ -40,22 +40,24 @@ import {controlFont, fieldInput, StyleProps} from './style-utils' with {type: 'm
 import {
   FieldLabel
 } from './Field';
-import {FocusableRef, FocusableRefValue, SpectrumLabelableProps} from '@react-types/shared';
+import {FocusableRef, FocusableRefValue, PressEvent, SpectrumLabelableProps} from '@react-types/shared';
 import {forwardRefType} from './types';
 import {HeaderContext, HeadingContext, Text, TextContext} from './Content';
 import {IconContext} from './Icon';
 import {Placement, useLocale} from 'react-aria';
 import {Popover} from './Popover';
+import {PressResponder} from '@react-aria/interactions';
 import {pressScale} from './pressScale';
 import {raw} from '../style/style-macro' with {type: 'macro'};
-import React, {createContext, forwardRef, ReactNode, useContext, useRef} from 'react';
+import React, {createContext, forwardRef, ReactNode, useContext, useRef, useState} from 'react';
 import {useFocusableRef} from '@react-spectrum/utils';
 import {useFormProps} from './Form';
+import {useGlobalListeners} from '@react-aria/utils';
 import {useSpectrumContextProps} from './useSpectrumContextProps';
 export interface PickerStyleProps {
 }
 export interface PickerProps<T extends object> extends
-  Omit<AriaSelectProps<T>, 'children' | 'style' | 'className' | 'placeholder'>,
+  Omit<AriaSelectProps<T>, 'children' | 'style' | 'className' | 'placeholder' | 'isTriggerPressedWhenOpen'>,
   PickerStyleProps,
   StyleProps,
   SpectrumLabelableProps,
@@ -181,69 +183,84 @@ function Picker<T extends object>(props: PickerProps<T>, ref: FocusableRef<HTMLB
   let {direction: dir} = useLocale();
   let RTLFlipOffset = dir === 'rtl' ? -1 : 1;
 
+  // For mouse interactions, pickers open on press start. When the popover underlay appears
+  // it covers the trigger button, causing onPressEnd to fire immediately and no press scaling
+  // to occur. We override this by listening for pointerup on the document ourselves.
+  let [isPressed, setPressed] = useState(false);
+  let {addGlobalListener} = useGlobalListeners();
+  let onPressStart = (e: PressEvent) => {
+    if (e.pointerType !== 'mouse') {
+      return;
+    }
+    setPressed(true);
+    addGlobalListener(document, 'pointerup', () => {
+      setPressed(false);
+    }, {once: true, capture: true});
+  };
+
   return (
     <div>
       <AriaSelect
         {...pickerProps}
+        isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false}
         aria-labelledby={`${labelBehavior === 'hide' ? valueId : ''} ${ariaLabelledby}`}>
         {({isOpen}) => (
           <>
             <FieldLabel isQuiet={isQuiet} />
-            <Button
-              ref={domRef}
-              style={renderProps => pressScale(domRef)(renderProps)}
-              // Prevent press scale from sticking while Picker is open.
-              // @ts-ignore
-              isPressed={false}
-              className={renderProps => inputButton({
-                ...renderProps,
-                size: 'M',
-                isOpen,
-                isQuiet,
-                density
-              })}>
-              <SelectValue className={valueStyles + ' ' + raw('&> * {display: none;}')}>
-                {({defaultChildren}) => {
-                  return (
-                    <Provider
-                      values={[
-                        [IconContext, {
-                          slots: {
-                            icon: {
-                              render: centerBaseline({slot: 'icon', styles: iconCenterWrapper({labelBehavior})}),
-                              styles: icon
+            <PressResponder onPressStart={onPressStart} isPressed={isPressed}>
+              <Button
+                ref={domRef}
+                style={renderProps => pressScale(domRef)(renderProps)}
+                className={renderProps => inputButton({
+                  ...renderProps,
+                  size: 'M',
+                  isOpen,
+                  isQuiet,
+                  density
+                })}>
+                <SelectValue className={valueStyles + ' ' + raw('&> * {display: none;}')}>
+                  {({defaultChildren}) => {
+                    return (
+                      <Provider
+                        values={[
+                          [IconContext, {
+                            slots: {
+                              icon: {
+                                render: centerBaseline({slot: 'icon', styles: iconCenterWrapper({labelBehavior})}),
+                                styles: icon
+                              }
                             }
-                          }
-                        }],
-                        [TextContext, {
-                          slots: {
-                            // Default slot is useful when converting other collections to PickerItems.
-                            [DEFAULT_SLOT]: {
-                              id: valueId,
-                              styles: style({
-                                display: {
-                                  default: 'block',
-                                  labelBehavior: {
-                                    hide: 'none'
-                                  }
-                                },
-                                flexGrow: 1,
-                                truncate: true
-                              })({labelBehavior})
+                          }],
+                          [TextContext, {
+                            slots: {
+                              // Default slot is useful when converting other collections to PickerItems.
+                              [DEFAULT_SLOT]: {
+                                id: valueId,
+                                styles: style({
+                                  display: {
+                                    default: 'block',
+                                    labelBehavior: {
+                                      hide: 'none'
+                                    }
+                                  },
+                                  flexGrow: 1,
+                                  truncate: true
+                                })({labelBehavior})
+                              }
                             }
-                          }
-                        }],
-                        [InsideSelectValueContext, true]
-                      ]}>
-                      {defaultChildren}
-                    </Provider>
-                  );
-                }}
-              </SelectValue>
-              <ChevronIcon
-                size={size}
-                className={iconStyles} />
-            </Button>
+                          }],
+                          [InsideSelectValueContext, true]
+                        ]}>
+                        {defaultChildren}
+                      </Provider>
+                    );
+                  }}
+                </SelectValue>
+                <ChevronIcon
+                  size={size}
+                  className={iconStyles} />
+              </Button>
+            </PressResponder>
             <Popover
               hideArrow
               offset={menuOffset}
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/src/ComboBox.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/src/ComboBox.tsx
index 538b381b32a..ef63b8578d2 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/src/ComboBox.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/src/ComboBox.tsx
@@ -77,7 +77,12 @@ export interface ComboBoxProps<T extends object> extends Omit<AriaComboBoxProps<
    */
   formValue?: 'text' | 'key',
   /** Whether the combo box allows the menu to be open when the collection is empty. */
-  allowsEmptyCollection?: boolean
+  allowsEmptyCollection?: boolean,
+  /**
+   * Whether the trigger remains pressed when the overlay is open.
+   * @default true
+   */
+  isTriggerPressedWhenOpen?: boolean
 }
 
 export const ComboBoxContext = createContext<ContextValue<ComboBoxProps<any>, HTMLDivElement>>(null);
@@ -123,7 +128,8 @@ function ComboBoxInner<T extends object>({props, collection, comboBoxRef: ref}:
   let {
     name,
     formValue = 'key',
-    allowsCustomValue
+    allowsCustomValue,
+    isTriggerPressedWhenOpen = true
   } = props;
   if (allowsCustomValue) {
     formValue = 'text';
@@ -207,7 +213,7 @@ function ComboBoxInner<T extends object>({props, collection, comboBoxRef: ref}:
       values={[
         [ComboBoxStateContext, state],
         [LabelContext, {...labelProps, ref: labelRef}],
-        [ButtonContext, {...buttonProps, ref: buttonRef, isPressed: state.isOpen}],
+        [ButtonContext, {...buttonProps, ref: buttonRef, isPressed: isTriggerPressedWhenOpen && state.isOpen}],
         [InputContext, {...inputProps, ref: inputRef}],
         [OverlayTriggerStateContext, state],
         [PopoverContext, {
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/src/DatePicker.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/src/DatePicker.tsx
index fe02d5e2b17..f5208583ef5 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/src/DatePicker.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/src/DatePicker.tsx
@@ -87,14 +87,24 @@ export interface DatePickerProps<T extends DateValue> extends Omit<AriaDatePicke
    * The CSS [className](https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/API/Element/className) for the element. A function may be provided to compute the class based on component state.
    * @default 'react-aria-DatePicker'
    */
-  className?: ClassNameOrFunction<DatePickerRenderProps>
+  className?: ClassNameOrFunction<DatePickerRenderProps>,
+  /**
+   * Whether the trigger remains pressed when the overlay is open.
+   * @default true
+   */
+  isTriggerPressedWhenOpen?: boolean
 }
 export interface DateRangePickerProps<T extends DateValue> extends Omit<AriaDateRangePickerProps<T>, 'label' | 'description' | 'errorMessage' | 'validationState' | 'validationBehavior'>, Pick<DateRangePickerStateOptions<T>, 'shouldCloseOnSelect'>, RACValidation, RenderProps<DateRangePickerRenderProps>, SlotProps, GlobalDOMAttributes<HTMLDivElement> {
   /**
    * The CSS [className](https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/API/Element/className) for the element. A function may be provided to compute the class based on component state.
    * @default 'react-aria-DateRangePicker'
    */
-  className?: ClassNameOrFunction<DateRangePickerRenderProps>
+  className?: ClassNameOrFunction<DateRangePickerRenderProps>,
+  /**
+   * Whether the trigger remains pressed when the overlay is open.
+   * @default true
+   */
+  isTriggerPressedWhenOpen?: boolean
 }
 
 export const DatePickerContext = createContext<ContextValue<DatePickerProps<any>, HTMLDivElement>>(null);
@@ -112,6 +122,7 @@ export const DatePicker = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(function
   [props, ref] = useContextProps(props, ref, DatePickerContext);
   let {validationBehavior: formValidationBehavior} = useSlottedContext(FormContext) || {};
   let validationBehavior = props.validationBehavior ?? formValidationBehavior ?? 'native';
+  let {isTriggerPressedWhenOpen = true} = props;
   let state = useDatePickerState({
     ...props,
     validationBehavior
@@ -174,7 +185,7 @@ export const DatePicker = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(function
         [DatePickerStateContext, state],
         [GroupContext, {...groupProps, ref: groupRef, isInvalid: state.isInvalid}],
         [DateFieldContext, fieldProps],
-        [ButtonContext, {...buttonProps, isPressed: state.isOpen}],
+        [ButtonContext, {...buttonProps, isPressed: isTriggerPressedWhenOpen && state.isOpen}],
         [LabelContext, {...labelProps, ref: labelRef, elementType: 'span'}],
         [CalendarContext, calendarProps],
         [OverlayTriggerStateContext, state],
@@ -221,6 +232,7 @@ export const DateRangePicker = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(func
   [props, ref] = useContextProps(props, ref, DateRangePickerContext);
   let {validationBehavior: formValidationBehavior} = useSlottedContext(FormContext) || {};
   let validationBehavior = props.validationBehavior ?? formValidationBehavior ?? 'native';
+  let {isTriggerPressedWhenOpen = true} = props;
   let state = useDateRangePickerState({
     ...props,
     validationBehavior
@@ -283,7 +295,7 @@ export const DateRangePicker = /*#__PURE__*/ (forwardRef as forwardRefType)(func
       values={[
         [DateRangePickerStateContext, state],
         [GroupContext, {...groupProps, ref: groupRef, isInvalid: state.isInvalid}],
-        [ButtonContext, {...buttonProps, isPressed: state.isOpen}],
+        [ButtonContext, {...buttonProps, isPressed: isTriggerPressedWhenOpen && state.isOpen}],
         [LabelContext, {...labelProps, ref: labelRef, elementType: 'span'}],
         [RangeCalendarContext, calendarProps],
         [OverlayTriggerStateContext, state],
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/src/Dialog.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/src/Dialog.tsx
index 5fc9a33cbe6..d2dac4218c3 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/src/Dialog.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/src/Dialog.tsx
@@ -22,6 +22,11 @@ import React, {createContext, ForwardedRef, forwardRef, JSX, ReactNode, useCallb
 import {RootMenuTriggerStateContext} from './Menu';
 
 export interface DialogTriggerProps extends OverlayTriggerProps {
+  /**
+   * Whether the trigger remains pressed when the overlay is open.
+   * @default true
+   */
+  isPressedWhenOpen?: boolean,
   children: ReactNode
 }
 
@@ -52,6 +57,7 @@ export function DialogTrigger(props: DialogTriggerProps): JSX.Element {
 
   let buttonRef = useRef<HTMLButtonElement>(null);
   let {triggerProps, overlayProps} = useOverlayTrigger({type: 'dialog'}, state, buttonRef);
+  let {isPressedWhenOpen = true} = props;
 
   // Allows popover width to match trigger element
   let [buttonWidth, setButtonWidth] = useState<string | null>(null);
@@ -86,7 +92,7 @@ export function DialogTrigger(props: DialogTriggerProps): JSX.Element {
           style: {'--trigger-width': buttonWidth} as React.CSSProperties
         }]
       ]}>
-      <PressResponder {...triggerProps} ref={buttonRef} isPressed={state.isOpen}>
+      <PressResponder {...triggerProps} ref={buttonRef} isPressed={isPressedWhenOpen && state.isOpen}>
         {props.children}
       </PressResponder>
     </Provider>
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/src/Menu.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/src/Menu.tsx
index 292b1815132..92d888aa878 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/src/Menu.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/src/Menu.tsx
@@ -61,11 +61,17 @@ export const RootMenuTriggerStateContext = createContext<RootMenuTriggerState |
 const SelectionManagerContext = createContext<SelectionManager | null>(null);
 
 export interface MenuTriggerProps extends BaseMenuTriggerProps {
+  /**
+   * Whether the trigger remains pressed when the overlay is open.
+   * @default true
+   */
+  isPressedWhenOpen?: boolean,
   children: ReactNode
 }
 
 export function MenuTrigger(props: MenuTriggerProps): JSX.Element {
   let state = useMenuTriggerState(props);
+  let {isPressedWhenOpen = true} = props;
   let ref = useRef<HTMLButtonElement>(null);
   let {menuTriggerProps, menuProps} = useMenuTrigger({
     ...props,
@@ -100,7 +106,7 @@ export function MenuTrigger(props: MenuTriggerProps): JSX.Element {
           'aria-labelledby': menuProps['aria-labelledby']
         }]
       ]}>
-      <PressResponder {...menuTriggerProps} ref={ref} isPressed={state.isOpen}>
+      <PressResponder {...menuTriggerProps} ref={ref} isPressed={isPressedWhenOpen ? state.isOpen : undefined}>
         {props.children}
       </PressResponder>
     </Provider>
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/src/Select.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/src/Select.tsx
index b2efd1e15c9..f9124bb5883 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/src/Select.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/src/Select.tsx
@@ -86,7 +86,12 @@ export interface SelectProps<T extends object = {}, M extends SelectionMode = 's
    * Temporary text that occupies the select when it is empty.
    * @default 'Select an item' (localized)
    */
-  placeholder?: string
+  placeholder?: string,
+  /**
+   * Whether the trigger remains pressed when the overlay is open.
+   * @default true
+   */
+  isTriggerPressedWhenOpen?: boolean
 }
 
 export const SelectContext = createContext<ContextValue<SelectProps<any, SelectionMode>, HTMLDivElement>>(null);
@@ -131,6 +136,7 @@ interface SelectInnerProps<T extends object> {
 function SelectInner<T extends object>({props, selectRef: ref, collection}: SelectInnerProps<T>) {
   let {validationBehavior: formValidationBehavior} = useSlottedContext(FormContext) || {};
   let validationBehavior = props.validationBehavior ?? formValidationBehavior ?? 'native';
+  let {isTriggerPressedWhenOpen = true} = props;
   let state = useSelectState({
     ...props,
     collection,
@@ -201,7 +207,7 @@ function SelectInner<T extends object>({props, selectRef: ref, collection}: Sele
         [SelectStateContext, state],
         [SelectValueContext, valueProps],
         [LabelContext, {...labelProps, ref: labelRef, elementType: 'span'}],
-        [ButtonContext, {...triggerProps, ref: buttonRef, isPressed: state.isOpen, autoFocus: props.autoFocus}],
+        [ButtonContext, {...triggerProps, ref: buttonRef, isPressed: isTriggerPressedWhenOpen && state.isOpen, autoFocus: props.autoFocus}],
         [OverlayTriggerStateContext, state],
         [PopoverContext, {
           trigger: 'Select',
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/stories/DatePicker.stories.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/stories/DatePicker.stories.tsx
index 4838bcffe59..4ed4b05b7d2 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/stories/DatePicker.stories.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/stories/DatePicker.stories.tsx
@@ -46,6 +46,9 @@ export default {
     validationBehavior: {
       control: 'select',
       options: ['native', 'aria']
+    },
+    isTriggerPressedWhenOpen: {
+      control: 'boolean'
     }
   }
 } as Meta<typeof DatePicker>;
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/stories/Select.stories.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/stories/Select.stories.tsx
index c71374de62e..e3d49f2daa4 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/stories/Select.stories.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/stories/Select.stories.tsx
@@ -31,6 +31,9 @@ export default {
     selectionMode: {
       control: 'radio',
       options: ['single', 'multiple']
+    },
+    isTriggerPressedWhenOpen: {
+      control: 'boolean'
     }
   }
 } as Meta<typeof Select>;
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/test/ComboBox.test.js b/packages/react-aria-components/test/ComboBox.test.js
index b786271a0da..a7a9e03a24b 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/test/ComboBox.test.js
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/test/ComboBox.test.js
@@ -109,6 +109,15 @@ describe('ComboBox', () => {
     expect(button).toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
   });
 
+  it('should not apply isPressed state to button when expanded and isTriggerPressedWhenOpen is false', async () => {
+    let {getByRole} = render(<TestComboBox isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false} />);
+    let button = getByRole('button');
+
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+    await user.click(button);
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+  });
+
   it('should support filtering sections', async () => {
     let tree = render(
       <ComboBox>
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/test/DatePicker.test.js b/packages/react-aria-components/test/DatePicker.test.js
index 5298849b1a5..14e06f89e11 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/test/DatePicker.test.js
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/test/DatePicker.test.js
@@ -107,6 +107,15 @@ describe('DatePicker', () => {
     expect(button).toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
   });
 
+  it('should not apply isPressed state to button when expanded and isTriggerPressedWhenOpen is false', async () => {
+    let {getByRole} = render(<TestDatePicker isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false} />);
+    let button = getByRole('button');
+
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+    await user.click(button);
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+  });
+
   it('should support data-open state', async () => {
     let {getByRole} = render(<TestDatePicker />);
     let datePicker = document.querySelector('.react-aria-DatePicker');
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/test/DateRangePicker.test.js b/packages/react-aria-components/test/DateRangePicker.test.js
index e6562776338..790dbbb3c28 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/test/DateRangePicker.test.js
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/test/DateRangePicker.test.js
@@ -128,6 +128,15 @@ describe('DateRangePicker', () => {
     await user.click(button);
     expect(button).toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
   });
+    
+  it('should not apply isPressed state to button when expanded and isTriggerPressedWhenOpen is false', async () => {
+    let {getByRole} = render(<TestDateRangePicker isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false} />);
+    let button = getByRole('button');
+
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+    await user.click(button);
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+  });
 
   it('should support data-open state', async () => {
     let {getByRole} = render(<TestDateRangePicker />);
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/test/Dialog.test.js b/packages/react-aria-components/test/Dialog.test.js
index c047f886513..14ebeee243e 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/test/Dialog.test.js
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/test/Dialog.test.js
@@ -43,6 +43,23 @@ describe('Dialog', () => {
     expect(dialog).toHaveAttribute('data-rac');
   });
 
+  it('should not apply isPressed state on trigger when expanded and isPressedWhenOpen is false', async () => {
+    let {getByRole} = render(
+      <DialogTrigger isPressedWhenOpen={false}>
+        <Button>Delete…</Button>
+        <Dialog>
+          <Heading slot="title">Title</Heading>
+        </Dialog>
+      </DialogTrigger>
+    );
+
+    let button = getByRole('button');
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+
+    await user.click(button);
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+  });
+
   it('works with modal', async () => {
     let {getByRole} = render(
       <DialogTrigger>
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/test/Menu.test.tsx b/packages/react-aria-components/test/Menu.test.tsx
index 4ff56edafbf..939ffd72c8d 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/test/Menu.test.tsx
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/test/Menu.test.tsx
@@ -489,6 +489,25 @@ describe('Menu', () => {
     expect(onAction).toHaveBeenLastCalledWith('rename');
   });
 
+  it('should not apply isPressed state on trigger when expanded and isPressedWhenOpen is false', async () => {
+    let {getByRole} = render(
+      <MenuTrigger isPressedWhenOpen={false}>
+        <Button aria-label="Menu">☰</Button>
+        <Popover>
+          <Menu>
+            <MenuItem id="open">Open</MenuItem>
+          </Menu>
+        </Popover>
+      </MenuTrigger>
+    );
+
+    let button = getByRole('button');
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+
+    await user.click(button);
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+  });
+
   it('should support onScroll', () => {
     let onScroll = jest.fn();
     let {getByRole} = renderMenu({onScroll});
diff --git a/packages/react-aria-components/test/Select.test.js b/packages/react-aria-components/test/Select.test.js
index 4328ecfc904..62e50fb5ac1 100644
--- a/packages/react-aria-components/test/Select.test.js
+++ b/packages/react-aria-components/test/Select.test.js
@@ -369,6 +369,15 @@ describe('Select', () => {
     expect(trigger).toHaveTextContent('Kangaroo');
   });
 
+  it('should not apply isPressed state to button when expanded and isTriggerPressedWhenOpen is false', async () => {
+    let {getByRole} = render(<TestSelect isTriggerPressedWhenOpen={false} />);
+    let button = getByRole('button');
+
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+    await user.click(button);
+    expect(button).not.toHaveAttribute('data-pressed');
+  });
+
   describe('typeahead', () => {
     beforeEach(() => {
       jest.useFakeTimers();