FlashMask v3 support headdim > 128 (PaddlePaddle#76365)

* fm3 support head dim in range (128, 256]

* update fa submodule

* fix codestyle

Author: umiswing

paddle/phi/kernels/gpu/flash_attn_v3_grad_kernel.cu

@@ -1111,20 +1111,15 @@ void FlashMaskV2GradBaseKernel(
           return {64, 64};
         }
       }
-    } else if (head_size_rounded <= 192) {
-      // umiswing: head dim > 128 is not supported now
-      PADDLE_THROW(
-          common::errors::Unimplemented("head dim is rounded to %d, which is "
-                                        "not supported in FlashMask V3 now.",
-                                        head_size_rounded));
-      return {0, 0};
     } else if (head_size_rounded <= 256) {
-      // umiswing: head dim > 128 is not supported now
-      PADDLE_THROW(
-          common::errors::Unimplemented("head dim is rounded to %d, which is "
-                                        "not supported in FlashMask V3 now.",
-                                        head_size_rounded));
-      return {0, 0};
+      // umiswing: by now, we reuse template instantiation of head dim 256 for
+      // head dim in range (128, 256], and therefore no separate dispatch for
+      // head dim in range (128, 192]
+      if (has_lt_end && has_ut_start) {
+        return {64, 32};
+      } else {
+        return {64, 64};
+      }
     } else {
       PADDLE_THROW(
           common::errors::Unimplemented("head dim is rounded to %d, which is "

paddle/phi/kernels/gpu/flash_attn_v3_kernel.cu

@@ -1396,7 +1396,7 @@ void FlashMaskV2BaseKernel(
                       common::errors::InvalidArgument(
                           "batch_size must be equal to batch_size_k"));
   }
-  int const max_headdim = std::min(flashmaskv2_get_max_headdim(), 128);
+  int const max_headdim = flashmaskv2_get_max_headdim();
   PADDLE_ENFORCE_LE(
       head_size,
       max_headdim,

paddle/phi/kernels/gpu/flash_attn_v3_utils.h

@@ -68,7 +68,7 @@ inline int get_max_headdim() {
   return 0;
 }
 
-inline int flashmaskv2_get_max_headdim() { return 128; }
+inline int flashmaskv2_get_max_headdim() { return 256; }
 
 inline int round_up_headdim(int head_size) {
 #ifndef FLASHATTENTION_DISABLE_HDIM64