chore(rust/driver/datafusion)!: update to datafusion 48 (#3167)

- Bumps `datafusion-*` to 48.0.1 and `arrow-*` to 55.2.
- Disables default features of `datafusion` and `datafusion-substrait`
- Put C driver export behind `ffi` feature flag
- Closes #3144

Author: mbrobbel