GH-47643: [Python][Packaging] Enable CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION for wheels (#47733)

### Rationale for this change

Experimentation in #47637 suggested that [enabling inter-procedural optimization (IPO)](https://cmake.org/cmake/help/latest/variable/CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION.html) could not only improve performance in some workloads, but also reduce the code size of Arrow libraries.

There's around 2% size reduction on the tested examples:

|wheel|size|
|---------|--------|
|last successful nightly `wheel-manylinux-2-28-cp312-cp312-arm64` | 44605918 bytes|
|with change `wheel-manylinux-2-28-cp312-cp312-arm64` | 43807946 bytes|
|last successful nightly `wheel-windows-cp311-cp311-amd64` | 28093080 bytes|
|with change `wheel-windows-cp311-cp311-amd64` | 27391407 bytes|

### What changes are included in this PR?

Add `-DCMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION=ON`  to Arrow C++ and wheels for both manylinux and windows. 

### Are these changes tested?

Yes via CI

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No

* GitHub Issue: #47643

Authored-by: Raúl Cumplido <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Raúl Cumplido <[email protected]>

Author: raulcd

ci/scripts/python_wheel_windows_build.bat

@@ -55,6 +55,7 @@ set ARROW_WITH_LZ4=ON
 set ARROW_WITH_SNAPPY=ON
 set ARROW_WITH_ZLIB=ON
 set ARROW_WITH_ZSTD=ON
+set CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION=ON
 set CMAKE_UNITY_BUILD=ON
 set CMAKE_GENERATOR=Visual Studio 17 2022
 set CMAKE_PLATFORM=x64
@@ -96,6 +97,7 @@ cmake ^
     -DARROW_WITH_ZSTD=%ARROW_WITH_ZSTD% ^
     -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=%CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE% ^
     -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX=C:\arrow-dist ^
+    -DCMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION=%CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION% ^
     -DCMAKE_UNITY_BUILD=%CMAKE_UNITY_BUILD% ^
     -DMSVC_LINK_VERBOSE=ON ^
     -DPARQUET_REQUIRE_ENCRYPTION=%PARQUET_REQUIRE_ENCRYPTION% ^
@@ -113,6 +115,7 @@ set PYARROW_BUILD_TYPE=%CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE%
 set PYARROW_BUILD_VERBOSE=1
 set PYARROW_BUNDLE_ARROW_CPP=ON
 set PYARROW_CMAKE_GENERATOR=%CMAKE_GENERATOR%
+set PYARROW_CMAKE_OPTIONS="-DCMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION=%CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION%"
 set PYARROW_WITH_ACERO=%ARROW_ACERO%
 set PYARROW_WITH_DATASET=%ARROW_DATASET%
 set PYARROW_WITH_FLIGHT=%ARROW_FLIGHT%

ci/scripts/python_wheel_xlinux_build.sh

@@ -85,6 +85,12 @@ else
     : ${ARROW_JEMALLOC:=ON}
 fi
 
+if [[ "${LINUX_WHEEL_KIND:-}" == "musllinux" ]]; then
+    : ${CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION:=OFF}
+else
+    : ${CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION:=ON}
+fi
+
 mkdir /tmp/arrow-build
 pushd /tmp/arrow-build
 
@@ -124,6 +130,7 @@ cmake \
     -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=${CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE} \
     -DCMAKE_INSTALL_LIBDIR=lib \
     -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX=/tmp/arrow-dist \
+    -DCMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION=${CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION} \
     -DCMAKE_UNITY_BUILD=${CMAKE_UNITY_BUILD} \
     -DPARQUET_REQUIRE_ENCRYPTION=${PARQUET_REQUIRE_ENCRYPTION} \
     -DVCPKG_MANIFEST_MODE=OFF \
@@ -142,6 +149,7 @@ echo "=== (${PYTHON_VERSION}) Building wheel ==="
 export PYARROW_BUILD_TYPE=${CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE}
 export PYARROW_BUNDLE_ARROW_CPP=1
 export PYARROW_CMAKE_GENERATOR=${CMAKE_GENERATOR}
+export PYARROW_CMAKE_OPTIONS="-DCMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION=${CMAKE_INTERPROCEDURAL_OPTIMIZATION}"
 export PYARROW_WITH_ACERO=${ARROW_ACERO}
 export PYARROW_WITH_AZURE=${ARROW_AZURE}
 export PYARROW_WITH_DATASET=${ARROW_DATASET}

dev/tasks/python-wheels/github.linux.yml

@@ -31,7 +31,7 @@ jobs:
     runs-on: ubuntu-24.04-arm
     {% endif %}
     env:
-      {% if linux_wheel_kind == "musllinux" and linux_wheel_version == "1-2" %}
+      {% if linux_wheel_kind == "musllinux" %}
       ALPINE_LINUX: "3.22"
       {% endif %}
       # archery uses these environment variables