Try release build type for pyarrow

Possibly a regression stemming from
abseil/abseil-cpp@f3760b4

Author: WillAyd

ci/docker/conda-cpp.dockerfile

@@ -84,6 +84,8 @@ ENV ARROW_ACERO=ON \
     ARROW_WITH_SNAPPY=ON \
     ARROW_WITH_ZLIB=ON \
     ARROW_WITH_ZSTD=ON \
+    CFLAGS="-DNDEBUG" \
+    CXXFLAGS="-DNDEBUG" \
     GTest_SOURCE=BUNDLED \
     PARQUET_BUILD_EXAMPLES=ON \
     PARQUET_BUILD_EXECUTABLES=ON \

ci/docker/conda-python.dockerfile

@@ -45,4 +45,6 @@ ENV ARROW_ACERO=ON \
     ARROW_JSON=ON \
     ARROW_SUBSTRAIT=OFF \
     ARROW_TENSORFLOW=ON \
-    ARROW_USE_GLOG=OFF
+    ARROW_USE_GLOG=OFF \
+    CFLAGS="-DNDEBUG" \
+    CXXFLAGS="-DNDEBUG"