[Bug] the queue's messages, span too long, so do flow control

[lfs1985]

There are many warn logs in the production environment。

The message has been processed，but the client's (in processQueue)minOffset no changed for long time。
Restart the client, the problem can be solved, but many messages will be repeated consumpted。
We try to reproduce it，but have no result。

rmq client: 4.7.1
rmq broker: 4.7.1
os: centos 7

[HScarb]

消费处理队列 ProcessQueue 中的数据堆积过多，超过阈值（默认为2000）。
消息拉取速度大于消费速度导致。

[cserwen]

It should be caused by this problem #3861

As for the reason for throwing an exception, it may be that PROPERTY_CONSUME_START_TIMESTAMP has not been set when cleaning up the expired message, so an exception is thrown at here.
https://github.com/apache/rocketmq/blob/9f95a972e10e0681bc3f2d00e9957aa212e897b5/client/src/main/java/org/apache/rocketmq/client/impl/consumer/ProcessQueue.java#L88C1-L89C1