[SPARK-54105] Update integration-test-ubuntu-spark41 to use Spark 4.1.0-preview3-java21

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR aims to update `integration-test-ubuntu-spark41` to use Spark `4.1.0-preview3-java21`.

### Why are the changes needed?

To have the latest Spark 4.1.0-preview3 Linux test coverage.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No.

### How was this patch tested?

Pass the CIs.

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No.

Closes #259 from dongjoon-hyun/SPARK-54105.

Authored-by: Dongjoon Hyun <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <[email protected]>

Author: dongjoon-hyun

.github/workflows/build_and_test.yml

@@ -93,7 +93,7 @@ jobs:
       SPARK_REMOTE: "sc://localhost:15003"
     services:
       spark:
-        image: apache/spark:4.1.0-preview2
+        image: apache/spark:4.1.0-preview3-java21
         env:
           SPARK_NO_DAEMONIZE: 1
         ports: