See parent issue for details: #614

This PR:

• When calling gitops-engine, you will now need to explicitly define the temporary path to write kubectl manifests to:
  • Add new parameter tmpManifestPath to public APIs:
    • NewEngine in pkg/engine/engine.go
    • NewClusterCache in `pkg/cache/cluster.go
  • In both cases, when calling these functions, you now must specify where to store temporary manifest files that are generated
  • If you wish to preserve the existing behaviour, just use the value from calling io.TempPathUseDevShmIfAvailable() (see examples in this PR)
• Updates existing gitops-engine code to use new API
• Preserves the existing behaviour of the code: code and tests that were previously using /dev/shm will continue to do so
• Updates pkg/utils/io/io.go API to make it more explicit about behaviour