fix: patch from @dzbarsky

Author: alexeagle

e2e/headers/BUILD.bazel

@@ -2,8 +2,8 @@ cc_test(
     name = "using_headers_test",
     srcs = ["using_headers.cc"],
     copts = select({
-        "@platforms//os:windows": ["/std:c++14"],
-        "//conditions:default": ["-std=c++14"],
+        "@platforms//os:windows": ["/std:c++17"],
+        "//conditions:default": ["-std=c++17"],
     }),
     target_compatible_with = select({
         # Windows does not ship headers in the release artifact so this won't work yet.

nodejs/private/current_node_cc_headers.bzl

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ cc_library(
     name = "foo",
     srcs = ["foo.cc"],
     # If toolchain sets this already, you can omit.
-    copts = ["-std=c++14"],
+    copts = ["-std=c++17"],
     deps = ["@rules_nodejs//nodejs/headers:current_node_cc_headers"]
 )
 ```

nodejs/repositories.bzl

@@ -275,6 +275,7 @@ cc_library(
     # -> no results ...
     allow_empty = True,
   ),
+  copts = ["-std=c++17"],
   includes = ["bin/nodejs/include/node"],
 )
 """