Merge bitcoin/bitcoin#31819: doc: swap CPPFLAGS for APPEND_CPPFLAGS

ea687d2 doc: swap CPPFLAGS for APPEND_CPPFLAGS (fanquake)

Pull request description:

  `APPEND_CPPFLAGS` will be understood by our CMake, whereas `CPPFLAGS` will not. Attempting what is currently documented will just give:
  ```bash
  CMake Warning:
    Ignoring extra path from command line:

     "CPPFLAGS=-DDEBUG_LOCKCONTENTION"
  ```

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Author: fanquake

doc/developer-notes.md

@@ -432,8 +432,8 @@ RPC that, when enabled, logs the location and duration of each lock contention
 to the `debug.log` file.
 
 The `-DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug` build option adds `-DDEBUG_LOCKCONTENTION` to the
-compiler flags. You may also enable it manually by building with `-DDEBUG_LOCKCONTENTION` added to your CPPFLAGS,
-i.e. `CPPFLAGS="-DDEBUG_LOCKCONTENTION"`, then build and run bitcoind.
+compiler flags. You may also enable it manually by building with `-DDEBUG_LOCKCONTENTION`
+added to your CPPFLAGS, i.e. `-DAPPEND_CPPFLAGS="-DDEBUG_LOCKCONTENTION"`.
 
 You can then use the `-debug=lock` configuration option at bitcoind startup or
 `bitcoin-cli logging '["lock"]'` at runtime to turn on lock contention logging.