txgraph: Add staging support (feature)

In order to make it easy to evaluate proposed changes to a TxGraph, introduce a
"staging" mode, where mutators (AddTransaction, AddDependency, RemoveTransaction)
do not modify the actual graph, but just a staging version of it. That staging
graph can then be commited (replacing the main one with it), or aborted (discarding
the staging).

Author: sipa