drop vAddrToSend after sending big addr message

We send a newly-accepted peer a 1000-entry addr message, and then only use
vAddrToSend for small messages. Deallocate vAddrToSend after it's been used for
the big message to save about 40 kB per connected inbound peer.

Author: kazcw

src/main.cpp

@@ -5713,6 +5713,9 @@ bool SendMessages(CNode* pto)
             pto->vAddrToSend.clear();
             if (!vAddr.empty())
                 pto->PushMessage(NetMsgType::ADDR, vAddr);
+            // we only send the big addr message once
+            if (pto->vAddrToSend.capacity() > 40)
+                pto->vAddrToSend.shrink_to_fit();
         }
 
         CNodeState &state = *State(pto->GetId());