PYTHON-5520 Add windows arm64 wheel support (mongodb#2511)

Author: finnagin

.github/workflows/dist.yml

@@ -41,6 +41,7 @@ jobs:
         - [ubuntu-latest, "manylinux_i686", "cp3*-manylinux_i686"]
         - [windows-2022, "win_amd6", "cp3*-win_amd64"]
         - [windows-2022, "win32", "cp3*-win32"]
+        - [windows-11-arm, "win_arm64", "cp3*-win_arm64"]
         - [macos-14, "macos", "cp*-macosx_*"]
 
     steps:
@@ -54,7 +55,7 @@ jobs:
       - uses: actions/setup-python@v5
         with:
           cache: 'pip'
-          python-version: 3.9
+          python-version: 3.11
           cache-dependency-path: 'pyproject.toml'
           allow-prereleases: true