build(deps): bump dependencies

update most dependencies, in particular the @opentelemetry/* ones to the
latest available package.

Also, add a config file for npm-check-updates.

Author: dependabot[bot]

.ncurc.json

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+{
+  "upgrade": true,
+  "reject": ["chai", "eslint", "eslint-plugin-unused-imports"]
+}