backport: merge bitcoin#28900, #29249, #29895, #30387, #31461, #31484, #31498, #31552, #31627, #30774, #31125, #31661, #31800, #31500, #33494, partial bitcoin#30940 (build backports: part 3)

backport: merge bitcoin#28900, #29249, #29895, #30387, #31461, #31484, #31498, #31552, #31627, #30774, #31125, #31661, #31800, #31500, #33494, partial bitcoin#30940 (build backports: part 3) #10468