Set ForceSendFields for boolean/integer values explicitly set to false/0 (#3385)

* Always set ForceSendFields if explicitly set

* fix

* fix databricks_sql_global_config

* fix

* only store fields from force send fields in state

* check for zero values

* only check against force send fields if set

* fixed sql config

* fixed test

* Update common/reflect_resource_test.go

Co-authored-by: Miles Yucht <[email protected]>

* Update common/reflect_resource.go

Co-authored-by: Miles Yucht <[email protected]>

* addressed feedback

* added unit test for serverless delete

* fix

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Co-authored-by: Andrew Nester <[email protected]>

Author: mgyucht