bump windows min cmake build to 3.16. don't build unused plugins for grpc on windows

Author: dbarker

.github/workflows/cmake_install.yml

@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@ jobs:
     name: Windows 2019 vcpkg submodule versions minimum cmake cxx14 (static libs)
     runs-on: windows-2019
     env:
-      CMAKE_VERSION: '3.14.0'
+      CMAKE_VERSION: '3.16.0'
       CXX_STANDARD: '14'
     steps:
       - uses: actions/checkout@11bd71901bbe5b1630ceea73d27597364c9af683 # v4.2.2

ci/setup_windows_ci_environment.ps1

@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ $VCPKG_DIR = (Get-Item -Path ".\").FullName
 ./vcpkg "--vcpkg-root=$VCPKG_DIR" install nlohmann-json:x64-windows
 
 # grpc
-./vcpkg "--vcpkg-root=$VCPKG_DIR" install grpc:x64-windows
+./vcpkg "--vcpkg-root=$VCPKG_DIR" install grpc:x64-windows --x-cmake-args="-DgRPC_INSTALL=ON -DgRPC_BUILD_TESTS=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_CPP_PLUGIN=ON -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_CSHARP_PLUGIN=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_OBJECTIVE_C_PLUGIN=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_PHP_PLUGIN=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_NODE_PLUGIN=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_PYTHON_PLUGIN=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPC_RUBY_PLUGIN=OFF -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPCPP_OTEL_PLUGIN=OFF"
 
 # curl
 ./vcpkg "--vcpkg-root=$VCPKG_DIR" install curl:x64-windows