feat: add NaN detection during training #10530

Job	Run time
Build C library (2.14, >=2.5.0,<2.15, libdeepmd_c_cu11.tar.gz)	1s
Build C library (2.18, libdeepmd_c.tar.gz)	1s
Test building from C library	1s
Pass building c library	2s
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