chore(deps-dev): bump the aws-sdk group in /packages/opentelemetry-node with 4 updates (#1404)

Updates `@aws-sdk/client-dynamodb` from 3.990.0 to 3.1011.0
Updates `@aws-sdk/client-s3` from 3.990.0 to 3.1011.0
Updates `@aws-sdk/client-sns` from 3.990.0 to 3.1011.0
Updates `@aws-sdk/client-sqs` from 3.990.0 to 3.1011.0

* bump node ver range to test with, based on engines.node in the current client modules

* fix instr-aws-sdk tests by (a) using --import to enable IITM hooks because smithy client now uses import('http') and (b) ignore possible net or dns spans

Co-authored-by: Trent Mick <trent.mick@elastic.co>

Author: dependabot[bot]