Update NCCL_NCHANNELS_PER_NET_PEER section and add "recv" to whitelist

Author: msimberg

.github/actions/spelling/allow.txt

@@ -273,6 +273,7 @@ pytorch
 quantumespresso
 quasiparticles
 quickstart
+recv
 rgw
 ripgrep
 rocm

docs/software/communication/nccl.md

@@ -22,13 +22,13 @@ While the container engine sets these automatically when using the NCCL hook, th
 
 [_Demystifying NCCL: An In-depth Analysis of GPU Communication Protocols and Algorithms_](https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.04786v2) contains detailed information about NCCL algorithms and protocols, which can be helpful for deciding if your application could benefit from an alternative configuration.
 
-In addition to the above variables, setting `NCCL_NCHANNELS_PER_NET_PEER` can improve send/recv performance:
+In addition to the above variables, setting `NCCL_NCHANNELS_PER_NET_PEER` can improve point-to-point performance (operations based directly on send/recv):
 
 ```bash
 export NCCL_NCHANNELS_PER_NET_PEER=4
 ```
 
-A value of 4 is generally a good compromise to improve send/recv performance without affecting collectives performance.
+A value of 4 is generally a good compromise to improve point-to-point performance without affecting collectives performance.
 Setting it to a higher value such as 16 or 32 can still further improve send/recv performance, but may degrade collectives performance, so the optimal value depends on the mix of operations used in an application.
 The option is undocumented, but [this issue](https://github.com/NVIDIA/nccl/issues/1272) contains additional details.