misc: Update CI docker container to use latest cudnn (#1362)

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Add nvidia-cudnn-cu12 and nvidia-cudnn-frontend to the docker container.

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#1283  #1312 #1317 

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cc @Anerudhan

Author: yzh119

docker/install/install_python_packages.sh

@@ -21,3 +21,4 @@ set -u
 
 pip3 install torch torchvision torchaudio --index-url https://download.pytorch.org/whl/cu128
 pip3 install ninja pytest numpy scipy build pynvml cuda-python einops nvidia-nvshmem-cu12
+pip3 install 'nvidia-cudnn-frontend>=1.13.0' 'nvidia-cudnn-cu12>=9.11.0.98'