feat: Enhanced JDBC hooks with PreparedStatement and batch support

This commit refactors the SqlQuery hooks to provide comprehensive support
for JDBC operations, particularly PreparedStatements and batch operations.

Key changes:
- Refactored prepareStatement/prepareCall hooks to capture at METHOD_RETURN
  and associate SQL strings with the returned statement objects using
  WeakHashMaps for proper prepared statement support
- Added comprehensive batch operation tracking (addBatch, clearBatch,
  executeBatch, executeLargeBatch)
- Added support for executeLargeUpdate (JDBC 4.2)
- Consolidated overloaded methods using @ArgumentArray to reduce code
  duplication and handle all method signatures uniformly
- Added proper exception handling hooks for all execute methods
- Implemented caching of database names using WeakHashMap to avoid
  repeated metadata lookups
- Removed nativeSQL hooks (doesn't actually execute SQL, just transforms it)
- Fixed potential NoClassDefFoundError by changing exception handling from
  SQLException to Throwable and removing direct class references

The SQLException fix addresses an issue in environments with custom
classloaders (e.g., Oracle UCP) where java.sql.SQLException might not be
visible to the hook class's classloader.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Author: dividedmind