Fix AOTI cpp tests (pytorch#153423)

`Error in dlopen: /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libstdc++.so.6: version GLIBCXX_3.4.30 not found` error  was caused by cmake migration (as conda one probably have some extra link rules), while `C++ exception with description "CUDA error: no kernel image is available for execution on the device` were caused by the fact that test were build for Maxwell, but run on SM_86

Remaining test was failing before, but was probably disabled
TODOs:
 - Move build to the build step

Pull Request resolved: pytorch#153423
Approved by: https://github.com/huydhn, https://github.com/cyyever

Author: malfet

.ci/pytorch/test.sh

@@ -408,8 +408,15 @@ test_inductor_aoti() {
     # We need to hipify before building again
     python3 tools/amd_build/build_amd.py
   fi
-  BUILD_AOT_INDUCTOR_TEST=1 python setup.py develop
-  CPP_TESTS_DIR="${BUILD_BIN_DIR}" LD_LIBRARY_PATH="${TORCH_LIB_DIR}" python test/run_test.py --cpp --verbose -i cpp/test_aoti_abi_check cpp/test_aoti_inference
+  if [[ "$BUILD_ENVIRONMENT" == *sm86* ]]; then
+    BUILD_AOT_INDUCTOR_TEST=1 TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST=8.6 USE_FLASH_ATTENTION=OFF python setup.py develop
+    # TODO: Replace me completely, as one should not use conda libstdc++, nor need special path to TORCH_LIB
+    LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/:${TORCH_LIB_DIR}:$LD_LIBRARY_PATH
+    CPP_TESTS_DIR="${BUILD_BIN_DIR}" python test/run_test.py --cpp --verbose -i cpp/test_aoti_abi_check cpp/test_aoti_inference
+  else
+    BUILD_AOT_INDUCTOR_TEST=1 python setup.py develop
+    CPP_TESTS_DIR="${BUILD_BIN_DIR}" LD_LIBRARY_PATH="${TORCH_LIB_DIR}" python test/run_test.py --cpp --verbose -i cpp/test_aoti_abi_check cpp/test_aoti_inference
+  fi
 }
 
 test_inductor_cpp_wrapper_shard() {