Disable ghcide-bench by default

Introduce a cabal flag to control the building of `ghcide-bench`,
which is an internal tool for benchmarking HLS.

This fixes a regression, where running
`cabal install haskell-language-server` would install `ghcide-bench` as
well as the required HLS executables.

Author: fendor

haskell-language-server.cabal

@@ -93,6 +93,11 @@ flag dynamic
   default:     True
   manual:      True
 
+flag ghcide-bench
+  description: Enable building of the ghcide-bench executable
+  default:     False
+  manual:      True
+
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 -- PLUGINS
@@ -2193,6 +2198,8 @@ test-suite ghcide-tests
 
 
 executable ghcide-bench
+    if !flag(ghcide-bench)
+      buildable: False
     default-language: GHC2021
     build-depends:
         aeson,