Use zmq-anyio #3128

Job	Run time
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	3m 47s
Make SDist	25s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.10)	3m 52s
check_release	1m 44s
test_docs	40s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 47s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	7m 33s
Test Lint	54s
Test Minimum Versions	2m 47s
Test Prereleases	2m 33s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	7m 4s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	3m 22s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	5m 34s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 15s
link_check	1m 40s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	7m 29s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	8m 34s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	7m 2s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	10m 24s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	9m 32s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.9)	9m 2s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.10)	8m 41s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	5m 43s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	5m 40s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	5m 27s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	7m 0s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	6m 15s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 26s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 42s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 32s
coverage	0s
	2h 32m 26s

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