Use zmq-anyio #3139

Job	Run time
link_check	3m 24s
Make SDist	24s
check_release	1m 52s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	6m 15s
test_docs	38s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.10)	3m 42s
Test Lint	49s
Test Minimum Versions	3m 13s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	5m 10s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	7m 19s
Test Prereleases	2m 20s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	2m 20s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	4m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 30s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 7s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	7m 41s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	9m 15s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	5m 4s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	8m 52s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	8m 2s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.9)	8m 17s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.10)	8m 20s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	5m 9s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	4m 4s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	5m 43s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	7m 22s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	5m 10s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 59s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.10)	5m 15s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 23s
coverage	0s
	2h 25m 43s

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