Use zmq-anyio #3156

Job	Run time
Make SDist	22s
check_release	1m 36s
link_check	3m 28s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	13m 42s
test_docs	38s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.10)	12m 43s
Test Lint	1m 15s
Test Minimum Versions	13m 34s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	13m 37s
Test Prereleases	12m 42s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	14m 42s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	12m 16s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	13m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	14m 22s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.10)	13m 58s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 35s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	4m 42s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	5m 33s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	5m 54s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	5m 34s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.9)	7m 56s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.10)	9m 29s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	13m 17s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	12m 44s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	12m 57s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	13m 23s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	13m 32s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.9)	15m 28s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.10)	15m 2s
Install from SDist and Test	12m 26s
coverage	0s
	4h 55m 31s

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