Use zmq-anyio #3157

Job	Run time
link_check	3m 30s
check_release	1m 38s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 54s
Make SDist	36s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.10)	5m 50s
test_docs	43s
Test Lint	1m 2s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	5m 39s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	13m 59s
Test Minimum Versions	3m 45s
Test Prereleases	2m 33s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	4m 21s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	2m 18s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 41s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 23s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 31s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	6m 1s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	9m 59s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	7m 30s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	9m 2s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.9)	8m 37s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.10)	8m 57s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	3m 17s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	5m 17s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	5m 17s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	6m 56s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	5m 37s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.9)	5m 11s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 51s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 27s
coverage	1s
	2h 34m 23s

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